We're Halfway There
After three months of getting used to an entirely new culture and way of living, I am a lot more flexible with change to say the least. I rarely ever know what is going to happen on a daily basis, and I have to say, it is a lot more fun that way. I usually miss about a quarter conversations that go on about what our plans with the family are, so I tend to just go with the flow and expect things to be, well, unexpected. When I talk to my family and friends back home I sometimes accidently forget I need to speak English and not Portuguese. Even as I am writing this now I have typed some Portuguese words on accident. As of a few weeks ago, my host sister and I are not speaking English to each other anymore, only Portuguese and it is already making the grammatical part of the language much easier for me.
One of the things I was most worried about before I came here was the food. At the beginning of this year I tried being a vegetarian because I really just don’t like meat very much and sometimes it grosses me out, but when I decided on Brazil that had to change pretty fast. I would say meat is the biggest food group here, and I have yet to meet a Brazilian vegetarian. Here, lunch is the biggest meal of the day and the whole family comes home everyday to eat lunch together. Most days it is the same. We have some kind of meat (chicken, beef or fish), beans or feijoada (black beans with meat), rice, salad, potatoes, and fruit. As worried as I was, it is actually really good food. I have liked almost everything I have tried here with the exception of feijoada. Most people who come here love it, but after I found out the pieces of meat in were all the left over parts of the animal, I couldn’t eat it. Another thing they eat that is different here is chicken hearts. I have been too afraid to try it yet but I promised myself I would do it before I leave.
I have gotten really used to how warm and “huggy” Brazilians are and I think it might be a little hard to get used to when I go home and no one is the same. At the beginning it was really hard to get used to kissing both cheeks when meeting someone new, but now it almost seems normal. The dancing in Brazil, however, is something I don’t think I will ever be able to do, or at least not very well. It seems like if you are born in Brazil, then you must know how to dance Samba, Forro, and Reggae. When I see people dancing here it is like I am watching Dancing with the Stars or something, that’s how good they are. It’s a big change from the US where a slow dance is swaying back and forth and a fast dance is jumping up and down.
Although I have only been here for three months and I am already half way through this journey, I feel like I have been here forever. Looking at a world map is a lot different for me now that all those countries that seem so far away have become places where people I have met and become friends with here live. I can feel this experience changing me; changing the way I see the world, how I think about people, how I think about my future; who I want to be. I am so excited to see where this experience will lead me J















